After it was announced back in April that Brandy and her fiancé Ryan Press had split up breaking their 15-month engagement off; seems like the song-bird wants to get hooked again.
She’s ready to get back out into the dating scene, but Brandy wants to make sure that her next romance lasts a lifetime like we read in the fairy tales.
The singer dropped by “The Daily Help Line” to find out how to get and keep the diamond ring.
Brand had this to say before the lecture, “I’ve been in relationships before. I’ve been the heartbreaker; I have had my heart broken to pieces,” she said.
“I just want to know the secret of making it work, ’cause time is ticking. I’m 35, and I’m trying to one day get to the next level. You know, marriage maybe?”
The female host, Spirits, gave Brandy the age-old lecture that communication and accountability are necessary for a relationship to thrive.
She had this to say, “If there was something that we could bottle, honestly, everybody wants to know the secret,” said Spirits.
“You’re not really going to like the answer because I think communication every day is the key. And I honestly think that most people are not willing to do what it takes to make a marriage work, much less a relationship.”
She added, “I really think that relationships are hard, and people don’t want to work hard.”
We all know that getting married is only part of this whole complex equation of trying to be and staying happy.
Spirits went on to tell her that once vows have been exchanged, she believes that couples have to be willing to do what it takes to keep the relationship together.
She stresses that while your personal happiness is a necessity, divorce should never be an option.
She reasons, “When you take it off the table, then you have the opportunity for resolution, you have the opportunity to forgive, and you have the opportunity for forever. Forgive.”
We cannot agree more that she has a point, it is your duty to keep who you have and if you want to lose them, it does not take really hard work.
Brandy who is 35 is getting worried about how elusive love that ends at the altar or the registrar’s office can be. She seems worried to that age is running pretty fast and she has to do something about it.
Well we wish her all the best! Aaliyah once sang that ‘’age aint nothing but a number’’ maybe, maybe not.