Kansiime On Why She Dumped Hubby: ‘I Was The One Paying Bills’
Comedienne Anne Kansiime is reportedly telling pals that her marriage with Gerald Ojok collapsed because she was literally footing all the bills at home.
Traditionally men are supposed to shoulder the burden of household upkeep like paying rent, settling utilities like water, power, fuel and other domestic expenses.
The comedienne recently intimated to pals in Ntinda that OJ was not contributing any financial support to their household.
Actually, on hearing such jazz, some of her fans posted on social media a picture of Kansiime with the caption: ‘Dear Men, If you’re broke and your girlfriend is paying for u rent then it is your role to scream during sex…. You can’t be useless night and day….’ The picture was believed to be a subtle message to OJ from Kansime’s friends who know about their predicament.
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Kansiime, that is not newsworthy, many women meet expenses at home and are quiet, could be OJ was doing something different like building a house instead of renting, in any case, why NOT ask him what he was doing with his money and QUIETLY not thru newspapers, tuswala!
What if it was Ojok footing all the bills would you have had a baby for him?
Dear sister Anne, this taints you much as it does him. For marriage should have some weightier matters for which separation or divorce can be considered justified. In your case, bills do not add up to warrant such course of action. Hope you sober up and make amends because what you’re throwing away easily is much more than bills sister…
wow!
Anne should stop these! What i know is that for the last 5yrs in their marriage ojok couldn’t have any DARK CHILD,the problem is with kansiime not oj!
Let hope if oj get better than what he she will not force herself back; there is no condition which is permanent. Please oj don’t look back keep forward one day things will change.
Till bills do us part…
Bakiga women are like that.I told Ojok before he traveled to Kigezi not to waste his time with Bakiga women coz they are very strong headed and he will end up in tears.He ignored my advice and is now regretting. These people love money and power and care less about love.A mukiga for a mukiga would work but not this one.
This is serious. I am a Mukiga and I am offended. I hate when people loose reason then go into tribalism. As if same tribe families dont divorce. You must be a single tribalist otherwise if you knew anything about marriage is that there is more than meets the eye. We all have a role to play to keep the marriage alive and well. Dont laugh at this couple, as they say, those with glass houses should not through stones.
mwana amaka gagumire nigakyira amabare ,egyo nensi
if God is not in marriage surely even if you swear before papa ,it will never stand.have always faith in God
Possible. Bakiga women, though not all, don’t entertain advice. They feel should stay on top. For Anne I think there is much more than this. However, no need to bring it to public judgement. After all, there was no public consultation at the very beginning of their love making! All I can say is that let them sort themselves and possibly come back together.
But they are in different worlds. Kansime will end up getting married to money.Any man she tries now will only use and dump her.watch this space.
Romours has it that our sister Anne is “barren”. The Luo (Northern) culture is enshrined in the belief that marriage means bearing children, lets chill as the actual reasons for the break up will unveil.
This is complete nosense. I thought h kansime was a serious artist, but am disappointed in her if actually she said this. Did she pay her own dowry… If I was Gerald then I would go back to this woman’s home and pick back my payments coz is not worth them. Can you imagine..
One thing I can say is that if kansiime really said that then sm women r so stupid, she’s been with him for 5yrs, he deserves sm lito respect frm u gal, but ol this is because ov peer pressure, now u hv older friends with failed marriages giving y advice but gal uve done yoself a big mistake, ojok is a very charming handsm man, he’ll find true love so soon than u will my dia, #disappointed
Thank you Esther. Tell them all.
Esther, Kansiime said that if Ojok is all that, then you can have him, mbu!
Human beings have animalistic tendencies, let’s look at lions; the lionesses do the hunting and actual kills only for males to come, chess them away and do the feeding! Those of you who have been to Gulu subregion, must have seen how much the women toil in the fields and markets and other income generating activities; where are the men when women are going through all this? May be it is division of labor, or OJ is being a “lion”! Let’s not be chauvinists, academics, tribal, feminists and whatever else, let’s hear from OJ.
They tried and failed. So let them be. And find there own happiness.
They tried and failed. So let them be. And find there own happiness.
That is a shameful. I wonder someone loved you for 5yrs Ithink Kansime before you got married by O.J. alot of men where there in the field why do you select O.J. stop your nonsese here we r tired of you people just Kansime is making comedy I knw her
Kansiime, you have no good reason of leaving OJ, but am sure OJ would be the one who has got true reason of leaving you if at all he would wish. In 5 years????? without a Child????? You are a suspected barren lady, if you are not sure better go back to your mother and inquire about your fertility. My brother OJ, please never comment on your separation on media, be an intelligent gentleman as you are, leave you X alone and move on. Even me I would have left her long time ago, I cannot waste my money, my fertility on a barren woman and am sure your parents are regretting. If you have already done your Holy Matrimony then it is a great disappointment brother. May God bless you and show you a true woman of your life. I know Kansiime will now be a damping ground for many many many men, and she will cry on the chests of million men on this world, sincerely she will always remember you wherever she will be.
westerners have never believed in northerners karugaba should agree with what augustine says,its true,however i don’t believe in tribalism but its a reality our girls have that pride,they think they are the only human beings others are bakoko
Hello Kansiime, If that’s the reason why a woman can leave a man then i am sorry for you. When you first felt in love with him, What was his ideal? How much was his income? What was your expenses with him? what made you to love him? Answer all the questions but you will still found your failed woman that no other man will need to settle with at home. Money is not love or marriage that’s why you did exposed about your relationship on the media until when you joined to become one flesh. I surely believe that this bro Mr. OJ bankruptcy that you are exposing today came as a results you being the Cost. I pity and regretted meeting people like you in someone life.
Let’s not change the “Internal Affairs” of our friends into a public discussion. What I see here is rumors. None of the couple send any comment about their family affairs and I hope it’s not Peer pressure that if you bring such lies out, it may scare him away. You the master planners must know that it is some friends’ family you are breaking up. When they were entering the marriage relationship did they sit to divide responsibilities like who takes care of what and where to stay? If one of the partners feels uncomfortable, s/he can open up and end it without broadcasting the reasons to the so call fans. Let’s not forget that most of the so called celebs do “trial marriage” and don’t commit fully in other words they are mostly ‘Not Submissive’ “In most cases, parents ask their daughters to marry because they care about their future.” Peer pressure also contributes to their decision making. Some of her friends, who got married, may have pushed her to do the same. “People like to think that what they are doing is right, and if you do it, too, that validates their choices,” “It’s best to get out from under the pressure. Leave K and OJ alone your bad comments may break their marriage for real#
aim disappointed to hear that from celebrity
Not only women that have problems with giving birth. Men who have low spam will never have a kids and in most Africa culture they blame the women. Too bad. Kansiim I still love your show and move on things happen today is you tomorrow somebody.
Both men and women can be barren, many men these days have a low sperm count bse of stress, pollution and others are just born like that! so do not blame this on one party. It’s funny everyone wants to know why they divorced, when she gives one of the reasons, she is called names. So she is darned either way. I am a very proud mukiga and if you look at statistics, we just don’t divorce, we hang in there until both sides agree that the love is no longer there. Weza Anna abo abaragamba busha obehuze. In this great technology Era orazarira ahu orayendere. Tindamanya yaba mwagyerizeho IVF, erakyira kuyamba. Ngu ‘etakabonaga erigasya empango’. Reka obutamanya, obushema, neitima bibagambise busha. Ndakuhagyira munonga mubyorakora. This is a bump in your life, just find a way around it. Ignore the haters and the uninformed and the know all. Ogumeho musigyi.
Dear Anne,
Stand ready to face no respect, your now former husband however poor he was, he was your backbone and because of him, you were being respected. But believe me, starting the day you decided to say no. the cue is now growing long, long, and long. Yes you are beautiful, educated and even proactive.
With this calamity more than the resignation of President Mugabe. My advice to you is that, not yet late, recall your decision and get back to you beloved husband. I don’t think you started from were you are today, all what you get today could be because of two of you being together.
so sad that they did not witness any off springs, but no condition is permanent with GOD’S Grace they will reunite
The article has just a one sided view,also looks like marriage for better or worse is isn’t of any value anymore.I pray they work there differences out.
I am really disappointed with Anne, her jokes all over a sudden don’t make me laugh. I want to make a general statement to our Ugandan girls, I have NOT heard any single girl asking to get/meet a lovely, trustworthy man all what every bitch in Uganda is looking for is a rich man, the most recent example are the stupid girls in Omoro county caring Chinese children. Love in Uganda is centred about how fat your bank account is …. and these same bitches complain when men cheat on them not know ALL other women are looking for the same RICH nigger…. so bear the stress and swallow the nonsense leave alone become an AIDS vector because your RICH nigger is a hot cake in town especially when he drives a 4 wheel,loaded can afford simple gifts like lunch,phone and airtime .
Women are fighting for emancipation and equality why are you so selective on that subject. So this stupid Anne wanted poor Ojok to buy all the bill despite her earning maybe 1000 fold because of contracts and the overseas travel she was gifted with? Fortunately where I leave women also participate equally in the home affairs. Women should forget about their central bank because there are many central banks to be drilled if you think that’s all you have to offer then you are a bunch of whores. I hate this stupid claim that a MAN has to do everything where is your dignity no wonder when a man becomes violet at home then you should shut up because he bought you and you are his property.
He feeds, clothes and services you, you become an object because you contribute nothing even after planting a hot seed in you, needless to say, the struggle of some men as some of you are pitless holes and boring he still has to pay for the milk etc.
Kansiime like abakazi abalala, mulina okukimanya nti ALLAH yagaba, kale katugambe ALLAH yasalawo kubafumbo ababiri sente naziwa mukazi, ekitegeeza nti ekyo Kansiime tokyagala?
Ye bwoba gwe ofuna, lwaki nawe forever toyimirizaawo maka nga omwami bweyandibade nga yazifuna.
Kansiime do you think nti onofunayoayagala okukuwasa nga aleeta nsimbi?
What asset do you have ? eyo etazaala na mwana?
Etalrilwa ku sente? etawa bufumbo kitiibwa?
Kale kati tandika okutunurila abagenda okutandika okukwabbula olabe anakuwasa nomala naye emyaka etano, mpozi
nga J tava ngulu.
Bwenkulimbaanga oja kufa nga wezinze .
Sorry, I have been principled not to comment on nosense based on rumours but am offended here.
These statements aren’t by any of the two guys.
Kansiime says on and on that they r no more but it’s only OJ and Her that reserve the rights over their issue and urges that, “some people are better off apart”. Let Red papper stop insinuating issues…