SEX, LOVE & FAME! Ashercax Spills on Women, Bedroom Matters and the Price of Music Dreams
Ugandan artist Ashercax is learning that life beyond the music comes with its own lessons. From navigating the diaspora and chasing international recognition to matters of love, sex, money and family, the singer is becoming more intentional about the man and artist he wants to be. In this candid conversation with FabMc for Red Pepper, Ashercax opens up about relationships, the realities of fame, the music business and his ambitions for the future, with a little humour along the way.
FabMc: What has changed the most about you since the last interview?
Ashercax: Back then, I was hungry and a bit impatient. Today, I am calmer and more strategic. The fire is the same, but now I think about the long game: my team, my sound and my business. Being away from home has also taught me patience.
FabMc: Is music still a calling, or has it become a business?
Ashercax: It is still my calling. That has never changed. But I have learned that a calling needs structure to survive, so yes, it is a business now too. I treat it seriously so the passion can last.
FabMc: What has the diaspora taught you about yourself that Uganda never could?
Ashercax: Independence and discipline. Abroad, nobody cushions you, so you find out what you are really made of. It has also made me appreciate Uganda, our culture and our people even more. Also, life can still go on without eating matooke.
FabMc: Has living abroad changed your sound, personality or definition of success?
Ashercax: My sound has matured. It is more polished and open to different influences, but it is still Ugandan at heart. As a person, I am more focused. Success used to mean being known. Now, it means impact, consistency and peace of mind.
FabMc: What was your immediate reaction to the Zikomo nomination?
Ashercax: I was humbled and excited. I thanked God and called my team. It told me that the work is being noticed and that the late nights and sacrifices are not going unseen.
FabMc: What would winning mean to you and to Ugandan music in the diaspora?
Ashercax: Personally, it would confirm that the sacrifice is worth it. For Ugandan music in the diaspora, it would show that we can stand confidently on international stages and act as a bridge to a wider audience. If you want to support me, voting is open until November 30. Every vote counts.
FabMc: How is your music different today from when you started?
Ashercax: When I started, I was still finding my voice. Today, my identity is clearer, my writing is stronger and the production is sharper.
FabMc: Which song represents the real Ashercax?
Ashercax: Ndi Bilala. Literally, it means “I am different.” It is honest and shows both sides of me, the confident artist and the man with real feelings.
FabMc: Are Ugandan artists getting enough international recognition?
Ashercax: The talent is world-class. The gap is in marketing, consistency and structure. We are getting there, but we have to push our music beyond our borders deliberately.
FabMc: What do Ugandan artists need to change to compete globally?
Ashercax: We need to collaborate more than we compete. We should invest in professional management, visuals and distribution. We need to think globally from day one and protect our work through contracts and royalties.
FabMc: Which artist do you admire and want to collaborate with?
Ashercax: There are many, but I would love to work with Wizkid. I admire his consistency and how he carries African sound to the world.
FabMc: How glamorous is the artist’s life really?
Ashercax: People see the highlight reel: the travel, the outfits and the stage. Behind it are long studio nights, travel fatigue and a lot of discipline. I am grateful for it, but it is work.
FabMc: Has music made you financially comfortable?
Ashercax: Music has opened doors, and I am steadily building towards real stability. The big misconception is that being known means being rich. Many artists invest heavily before they earn anything, so I am focused on building smartly.
FabMc: Has success changed how people treat you? Have you lost a friendship over your career?
Ashercax: Yes. Some people treat you differently, some better and others with expectations. A few friendships have drifted as our priorities changed, and I hold no bitterness about it. I stay close to the people who knew me before the music. Sometimes I say, “If you no longer see me with someone, just know I was the fake friend.”
FabMc: What would surprise people about your lifestyle?
Ashercax: I am far more low-key than people think. I pray a lot, and I love…
FabMc: Has your taste in women changed with age?
Ashercax: I still love a smart go-getter, but now I value peace, emotional maturity, kindness and a shared vision just as much as ambition. Mpozi ne nyashi lo.
FabMc: A woman who loves Ashercax the celebrity, or the man behind him?
Ashercax: The man behind Ashercax. Celebrity status fades, but the man remains. I want someone who can enjoy a normal, quiet day with me.
FabMc: Would you still rather marry a friend than a fan?
Ashercax: Honestly, I would not choose based on whether she is a friend or a fan. I would choose based on the connection we have. A fan can become a genuine friend, and a friend can become the love of your life. For me, marriage is about trust, loyalty, understanding and finding someone who loves Ashercax the man, not just Ashercax the artist. When it comes to marriage, the heart matters more than the label.
FabMc: Does being an artist make relationships easier or harder?
Ashercax: Both. Attention is easy, but honesty is rare. So I am careful. I watch how people treat others when they have nothing to gain.
FabMc: Have you ever been so in love that it affected your music?
Ashercax: Absolutely. Love can affect your music in ways you do not even expect. When you are deeply in love, you write differently. When you are heartbroken, you feel every word differently. Some of the strongest music comes from emotions you cannot easily explain. For me, music is a way of turning real feelings into something people can relate to. Sometimes, a song says what the heart struggles to say out loud. Hehehe.
FabMc: What’s the craziest thing you have done for a woman, and what’s the craziest thing a woman has done for you?
Ashercax: For a woman I truly care about, I can go out of my way to make her feel special. I believe love is in the effort, not just the money. And the craziest thing a woman has done for me? Let’s just say some things are better kept between two people.
FabMc: How important is sex in a serious relationship?
Ashercax: It is important because intimacy brings two people closer, but it cannot replace trust, respect and communication. For me, a strong relationship starts with a genuine connection, and everything else grows from there.
FabMc: Can you separate sex from love?
Ashercax: I believe you can, but personally, I find intimacy more meaningful when there are real feelings involved. Chemistry is good, but when you have love and understanding too, it is a different experience.
FabMc: Does fame make your sex life easier or more complicated?
Ashercax: Honestly, more complicated. When you are an artist, sometimes you do not know whether someone likes you for who you are or for the lifestyle they associate with you. I would rather have genuine love and peace than attention from a hundred people.
FabMc: How do you tell if someone likes you or the lifestyle around you?
Ashercax: Time reveals everything. I pay attention to how someone treats me when there is nothing to gain. Are they there when I am tired, stressed or going through a difficult season? If they care about the man behind the music, that is what matters to me.
FabMc: Can great sex save a failing relationship, or can bad sex destroy a good one?
Ashercax: Great intimacy might bring people closer temporarily, but it cannot fix a lack of trust or respect. When two people stop communicating about their needs, that can create distance. A healthy relationship requires effort in every area.
FabMc: Have you ever written a song about a woman you slept with?
Ashercax: As an artist, real life and real emotions will always inspire my music. Sometimes a song comes from love, sometimes heartbreak, and sometimes an experience you cannot explain. But I will not expose a woman’s private life just to make a hit. I am a musician, not a storyteller who betrays people’s trust. Hehehe.
FabMc: Which is more dangerous: sleeping with your ex again or your friend’s ex?
Ashercax: Neither is a good idea. Both are a recipe for drama, and I prefer peace. I respect my friends, and I maintain closure with my exes.
FabMc: What does family mean to you, and has success changed your responsibilities?
Ashercax: Family is my foundation. They remind me of who I am beyond the music, the performances and the attention. As I grow, I understand that success is not just about what I achieve for myself. It is also about the people I love and the responsibility that comes with being able to do more for them.
FabMc: What does your family still complain about?
Ashercax: They would probably say I work too much or do not call as often as I should. Sometimes, you become so focused on building your dreams that you forget the people who want nothing more than to hear your voice. It is something I am learning to balance. Hehehe.
FabMc: Who knows the real Ashercax best, and who do you call when life is hard?
Ashercax: The people closest to me know the real Ashercax, the person behind the name. When life gets difficult, I turn to people I trust who can listen without judging me. I have a handful of them. My faith also helps me stay grounded. Nga ndi gumite.
FabMc: What family sacrifice will you never forget?
Ashercax: I will never forget the people who believed in me before the world had a reason to pay attention. Pursuing music takes patience, sacrifice and a lot of belief, especially when the results are not immediate. I want my success to be something my family can share in and feel proud of.
FabMc: What private battle do your fans know nothing about?
Ashercax: One of the biggest battles for an artist, especially one living far away from home, is dealing with the pressure people do not see. You can look confident on stage while privately questioning your progress, your decisions or how long the journey will take. I am learning that being strong does not mean never having doubts. It means continuing even when things are difficult.
FabMc: Do you get lonely, and what scares you about the future?
Ashercax: Of course. Being ambitious does not mean you never feel lonely. Sometimes, you can be surrounded by people and still have things on your mind that only you understand. What scares me most is reaching the end of my journey without fully using the talent and opportunities I have been given. I want to succeed, but I also want to enjoy the journey and make time for the people I love.
FabMc: What career mistake would you never repeat?
Ashercax: One lesson every independent artist needs to learn is that talent alone is not enough. You need to understand the business, choose the right people and make sure agreements are clear. I believe every experience, good or bad, can teach you something. The important thing is not to repeat the same mistake.
FabMc: What opinion about the industry will many artists disagree with?
Ashercax: I think our industry sometimes celebrates popularity more than ownership. We focus on streams, followers and hype, but we also need to talk about publishing, royalties, contracts and financial discipline. Numbers can make you look successful, but understanding your business helps you build a career that lasts. Some will not agree, but I say it with love for our industry.
FabMc: Have you ever felt another artist got an opportunity you deserved?
Ashercax: Yes, there have probably been moments when I have wondered why an opportunity went to someone else. I am human. But I have learned that someone else’s success does not cancel my potential. Instead of wasting energy on comparison, I would rather improve my craft and prepare myself for the next opportunity. Now I clap for people who are winning while patiently waiting for my turn. I hope they will clap for me too. Tebachikansingo ate hehehe.
FabMc: What’s the biggest misconception about you?
Ashercax: That I am serious and distant. In reality, I am easy-going and humble, and I love to laugh. People might see the artist and assume they already know the person. But there is more to me than the music and the image. I am still learning, growing, laughing and figuring things out like everybody else. I would rather people get to know me through my actions than judge me by appearances.
FabMc: Where do you see yourself in five years, and what dream is still unachieved?
Ashercax: In five years, I see myself performing on major international stages, releasing projects that connect with people across borders and building a strong, sustainable music career. But I also want to create opportunities for other young Ugandan artists. My dream is not just to make it out there. It is to make an impact and open doors for others. I am still working towards the biggest stages, and I believe the journey is just getting started.
FabMc: What would you tell the younger Ashercax, and what would you say to the people voting for you?
Ashercax: Hey, younger me, be patient, believe in your talent, learn the business and do not let difficult seasons make you question your purpose. Protect your peace, stay humble and keep going.
To everyone supporting and voting for Ashercax, thank you for believing in me. Every vote, stream, share and word of encouragement means something. You are not just supporting an artist; you are helping build a dream. Please keep voting through the official link before the deadline, and let us make this happen together. I promise to keep working, growing and giving you music you can be proud of.
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