FANTASY! Reasons you should have a threesome

Threesomes are one of the most common fantasies people have, and yet, despite their popularity, still hold an air of mystery and taboo. Undoubtedly they are not something that most people indulge in on a weekly basis, however, there’s a lot to be said for the occasional flirtation with group sex, and three isn’t always a crowd.

Whether you’re shocked at the idea of an additional guest, or think that the more there are the merrier it is – here are 12 reasons why threesomes are awesome.
Two to tease and please your man.
Men are highly visual, and the sight of you kissing and caressing another woman can be a major turn on. The look on a guy’s face when he sees you hungrily and passionately suck on a hot chick’s nipples or go down on her is like nothing else.
A girl just gets it.
While you’re busy slowly running your tongue up and down his member, she can be down in your pussy giving it the best licking of your life. Don’t get me wrong, men can be fantastic at eating out, but another woman is just so in tuned with another woman’s body that it’s definitely some next level satisfaction.
No one is left wanting.
No matter how you divvy up the “duties”, threesomes almost guarantee that everyone walks away satisfied. Guy blows his load before one of you have achieved that O? No worries, there’s another person in that bed that can help out while the other party recovers.
It can open your eyes to new things you like.
Everyone has their own ideas of what is pleasurable, their own techniques, and styles. Bringing a third person in into the bedroom lets you see another person’s take on all of it. Whether it’s the different way she gives a hand job, a special thing she does with her tongue, or even introducing her favorite toy (can you say ‘Strap-on’?!), finding new and sexy ways to play is never a bad thing.
It can bring you closer to your partner.
While threesomes can be done casually, I’ve always found the best times were when I had them with a partner who I was in a loving, committed relationship with. As long as you are both secure and open in your relationship, having this kind of experience together can actually bring you closer together. And it lets your partner see a side of you that he wasn’t aware of before.
There’s someone available to go get snacks!
Ever been in the middle of it and needed a sip of water, badly? Or how about right afterwards, and that bowl of ice cream sounds so great but the thought of getting up to get it sounds daunting. Well, you might have to rock, paper, scissor it (and scissoring might be the preferred method of choice, wink wink), but there are now three of you to work out who grabs what instead of you just lying there, dying of thirst.
Surely, there are a lot of finer points to consider when contemplating having a threesome. The who, the what, the when, the why – all of it needs to be communicated clearly with your partner. But when it’s between three consenting, mature adults, it can be one hell of a wild ride.
They’re naughty
While nobody should feel obliged to participate in acts of sexual deviancy that they don’t want to, there is something deliciously naughty and forbidden about a manage a trios – and it feels good to be bad once in a while.
Life’s too short
And you only regret the things you don’t do.
Many hands make light work
Anyone who has indulged in group sex will tell you that an extra body in the bed will lead to sensory discoveries you never thought possible.
Variety is the spice of life
It is widely believed that additional people in the bedroom can be a recipe for disaster when it comes to relationships. However, the opposite can be true. So long as you are in a solid relationship, the threesome is consenting and boundaries are understood, there is no reason why the occasional playmate can’t enhance a couple’s sex life.
Or you could stick to a missionary in the bedroom for the next ten years … now *that’s* how to kill a relationship.
You can take a break
And not have to worry about how loud you are weeing in the en-suite, because the chances are your bedroom buddies are a little preoccupied.
It’s a reality check
Thanks to the likes of Face tune, filters, and endless airbrushing, most people believe they are dramatically less polished/well turned out than their peers. Watching other people have sex, close up, without an edit, means that you’ll realize that, hold the front page, other women have ingrown too!
It’s a bit of a laugh
Which really is the bottom line. A threesome isn’t something you should ever feel obliged to do or be bullied into it, it’s something which, when done by consenting adults, can mean hours of fun. Sex is supposed to be fun, threesomes are supposed to be *very* fun.
You’ll push you’re boundaries
Which is surprisingly liberating and, in your post-double-coital glow, will give you no end of sexual confidence. And make you realize that, God dang, you’re good in bed.